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<p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人以为情商就是会说话、会沟通、长袖善舞、八面玲珑，这些都不是情商的本意。所谓的情商<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: Helvetica, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">EQ</span>，其实主要是指人在情绪、意志、耐受挫折等方面的品质。<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: Helvetica, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">EQ</span>是由五种特征构成的：自我意识、控制情绪、自我激励、认知他人情绪和处理相互关系。</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人所说的性格不好，其实就是情商不够。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br /></p><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); white-space: normal; line-height: 25.6px; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">误区一/ 内向的人，就是情商很低</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我认识很多侃侃而谈的人，都不是天生外向型，包括我自己。<span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 14px; line-height: 28px; white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">本质上，我认为自己是内向的，因为我喜欢独处或者和三两好友相处。</span>但现在我可以在各种分享会上应对自如！是我变得外向了吗？不是的！</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">真正令我改变的是：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 13px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></strong></strong>第一：我建立了很强大的自我意识，不再那么惧怕别人看我的眼光。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 13px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></strong></strong>第二：知识上的多年累积，给了我自信。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 13px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></strong></strong>第三：每次我都有做充分的准备，我知道了，没有人是天生的演讲家。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，并不是我性格改变了，而是我不那么恐惧这件事了，我有能力和能量应对处理这件事了。内向的人，依然可以成为演说家。历史上许多优秀的演说家，比如前美国总统林肯，他其实是一个非常害羞和内向的人。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">所谓的内向和外向，只是他们获取信息、自我驱动的方式不同，他们喜欢的交流方式不同，他们对环境的适应能力不同，并不决定着谁的情商更高。</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align:center"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/dx3KibwtDhveAnezmciaTVoJzL5uewMRTb1s7J2ZarEjicG4NjPjVPFXoibaOxQ2o8SUFV9xm8eJkImFQr1fVPK8Hw/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-ratio="0.6122448979591837" data-w="441" /><br /></span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></strong></span></p><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 25.6px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 14px; line-height: 25.6px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">误区二/有心计的人，情商更高</span></strong><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(171, 25, 66); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这是我在现实中更频繁听到的一个论调。我的男朋友被人抢走了，因为对方比我更有心计。甄嬛为什么能笑到最后，因为她学会了算计别人。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">真的是因为这样吗？<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人完全忽略的一个问题是，这些心计行之有效的原因是：</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">她们在整个事情行进过程中情绪非常稳定，而对手，太容易情绪失控了。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">比如甄嬛，她失子之后的抑郁，成功让皇后重新赢得局势上的优势，甚至以此把她送出宫，让她彻底离开皇上的视野。她不是输在了心计不如皇后，而是没办法控制自己的情绪，在伤心中放弃了自己。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">同样的，《琅琊榜》里的梅长苏和靖王。梅长苏步步为营，他知道，对手情绪不稳之时，就是他出手之时。而靖王虽忠勇耿直，却总是因容易冲动，险些毁了梅长苏的精心布局。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，与其说，有心计的人情商更高，不如说，因为他们想的更深远、运筹帷幄，所以情绪控制能力更高，不会那么容易情绪失控，受制于人。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">同理，因为情绪稳定，所以他们在关键时刻，能做出更正确的决断。</strong></span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">而情绪控制能力弱的人，太容易把自己的弱点、把柄暴露在外。同时因为情绪差，失去了辨别力、思考力，自掘坟墓。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="text-align:center"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/dx3KibwtDhveAnezmciaTVoJzL5uewMRTbPxYqUCx8tcLYBjmvPUTGHvdN1mAejvsxiaFpzTFC8CSzhtbiav0N7TEA/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-ratio="0.6646525679758308" data-w="331" /><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></p><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 25.6px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(136, 12, 12); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">误区三/情绪稳定，不是没情绪，而是不影响决断</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 14px; line-height: 2em; text-align: left;"> </span><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">朋友方南跟我痛诉她的老板，如何如何的小气、善变。我说，那么，你想怎么办？她说：你放心，我会继续待下去。你对我说过：第一，现在出去没有更好的选择。第二，我还不够强，我还有学习上升的空间。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">她不是没情绪，她也会吐槽、抱怨，可这些不会影响她的最终决定，她也不会给朋友造成困扰。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这样的朋友，你会觉得值得信赖，你还会觉得她很有人味。她不是没有情绪的机器，她也会生气难过伤心失望，但她不需要你为她担心。她说话很直，她不会拐弯，可你并不会觉得她性格不好，相反你会喜欢她的直接。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有情绪会找靠谱的渠道发泄，但不会因此昏头昏脑做出错误决定。这才是真正的情绪稳定，有情绪自控能力。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">而另一个朋友伊伊，在她的男朋友提出分手时，对我泪流满面的说：我真的不是故意发脾气的，我就是这样性格的人啊，我跟父母在一起也是这样说话的。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 2em; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; line-height: 2em; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我也很真诚的对她说：如果你对你的脾气没有办法，你就不值得更好的人生啊，因为你正在让对方的人生变得不好。性格不好，这真的不是理由。</strong><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">性子急、脾气火爆，不是什么问题。可是，借着性子刻意伤人，不知悔改，一次次试探对方的忍耐底线，就是问题。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">性格内向、不擅言谈，也不是什么问题。可是，以性格为借口，一次次冷暴力，浪费人生、浪费他人生命，就是问题。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; text-align: left; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，对于朋友，我可以接受理解她们的任何情绪。但那些在情绪低潮时候，蓄意伤人或者蓄意冷冻的人，我不会深交，甚至会远离。不是我承受不起，而是低情商者，就是会不断消耗身边的人。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="text-align:center"><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/dx3KibwtDhveAnezmciaTVoJzL5uewMRTbJSzrFnxuAkXBJJ5mq37acjJCCVp2X73rOuY5YbY4N7iaubhhEAZwvGg/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-ratio="0.771875" data-w="640" /></p><p style="text-align:center"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，不要再用“我天生性格如此”做理由了。</span><strong style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 14px; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果性格不好，那就努力去改啊、去学习啊、去修行啊。</strong><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 14px; line-height: 2em;">智商是天生的，之所以有情商这个概念提出，正是因为，</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 14px; line-height: 2em; max-width: 100%; font-family: Helvetica, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">EQ</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 14px; line-height: 2em;">是可以通过后天学习来提升的。</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136); font-size: 14px; line-height: 2em; 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