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发表于 2020-10-19 23:19:22 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式

                    

                    

                    
                    
                    <p><img data-type="gif" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/dx3KibwtDhvc6YBndBzrYvfAVPCGNAlsqB9f7SjRnXkibcO3P2CSjz7TnOO8RAArOGOjobic1D5DCTCzzAoxv9jfw/0?wx_fmt=gif" data-ratio="0.1703125" data-w="640"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><h1 style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="__bg_gif" data-ratio="0.36923076923076925" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/icB0yCLh6LJuGFQ8Noej3FicbKcDhkfMficWb4JWXhUZ9mM9n8zgwnBiaBd8zx2zxWku9sHICP8kvlRNd1IHFltHfA/0?wx_fmt=gif" data-w="65" style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 25.5938px; vertical-align: middle; word-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible !important; width: auto !important;" width="auto"  /><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">  &nbsp;</span><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p></h1><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">别把人生搞得太复杂,世上本无事,庸人自扰之。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">吵架是怎么产生的?<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">一切吵架都源于沟通。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">人与人之间的沟通,就是互相把对方信息进行编码和解码的过程。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">由于双方有不同的立场、环境、背景、经验、文化,在编码和解码过程中难免出现“误读”。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">误读的时候就会为自己的失误去解释和圆场,于是又会产生新的编码和解码的误读,难免就会着急。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这时你的情绪就会出来火上加油,让你脸红脖子粗,于是双方干脆互相攻击和谩骂,沟通升级成了争吵。</p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;我们总是在潜意识当中防止别人对自己进行贬低和否定的,每个人都期待外界对自己的认可,这也是我们积极和努力的源动力。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/dx3KibwtDhvcgYthMzPqumZ0SX5ad8dQDxNuyRQWdiayyPGVQ3aSUj1vstQ7a3icia9x6fEJ7Dxf3yGXotibGmKXGKQ/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-ratio="0.7223476297968398" data-w="443"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;而当我们彼此发生争吵时,为了迅速挫败对方,一定会从一个人的道德和人品上去攻击对方。那就不再是“双方谁对谁错的”的问题了,而是直接升级成一场“<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">人格攻击战”和“人格保卫战”。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;所以,吵架吵到一定程度,我们就不再为争对错,而是为了争一口气。也就是说我们是被自己的情绪牵着走的,于是吵架变成了同自己情绪斗争的过程。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;因此吵架时真正的敌人不是吵架的对手,而是自己的情绪。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;藏在我们身体里的“情绪”,才是我们每个人的最大敌人。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;最可怕的是:人一旦被情绪左右,心魔就会趁机而出,很多冲动行为就是这样导致的。一时的冲动造成终身后悔的事情比比皆是。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;所以,<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在被激怒的时刻,千万不要当即回击,不妨先在内心里从1数到10,然后再去交流和沟通,这是个很好的办法。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp;世界上真的没有吵赢的架。</span></strong><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;吵架的双方一定都会输掉,只是看谁输的更惨。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;所以吵架的本质,就是用别人的错误惩罚自己,何苦呢?</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;切记:得饶人处且饶人,千万不要随意出口伤人,争执的时候就事论事,围绕事情本身去探讨,不要把自己放在和对方同一个低层次,轻易的上升到人身攻击。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp;世上本无事,庸人自扰之。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;每一个让你痛苦的人,必定会让你强大,每痛苦一次,你内心就强大一次。它们都是来度你的。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;虽然我们都是凡人,但是我们却能够读懂这个基本道理。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p><img data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/dx3KibwtDhvcgYthMzPqumZ0SX5ad8dQDDdPHFoXAlYYmPbrH9DQVp9rDG8CVTz0KgAFmxM4Jlk8zUNezicrbbrw/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-ratio="1" data-w="484"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;关于沟通,网上有篇文章写的很好:两个人在生气的时候,心的距离是很远的,而为了穿越心的距离,使对方能够听见,于是必须喊。但是在喊的同时,人会更生气,更生气距离就更远,距离更远就又要更大声地喊……</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;而当两个人在相恋时,情况刚好相反,不但不用喊,而且说话都很轻声细语,为什么?因为他们的心很接近,心与心之间几乎没有距离,所以相恋中的两个人,通常是耳语式的说话。但是心中的爱,却因此更深了,到后来根本不需要言语,只用眼神就可以传情,而那时,心与心之间,早已没有所谓的距离了……</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;因此两个人在生气的时候,心的距离是很远的。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;有的人近在咫尺,却远在天涯;有的人远在天边,却近在眼前。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp;一切只取决于心的距离。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(123, 12, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;所以,如果你遇到一个不愿意跟你吵架的人,请淡定一下。她不是不会吵,而是不想把自己降到一个发怒者的姿态。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"  /></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &#39;Hiragino Sans GB&#39;, &#39;Microsoft YaHei&#39;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp;而我们唯一杜绝吵架的方法就是,我们要学会包容,站在别人的立场思考问题</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; 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