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<p><img data-type="gif" class="__bg_gif " data-ratio="0.10555555555555556" data-w="720" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/M2H0aGBjWUTRia7nqkArYeKZUqEfdmpNibMPiaZk4gvlWk5v5lUKyXhjJP4CENKQeQt5HI8zwcTCWJOkicfWJiatdJQ/640?wx_fmt=gif" style="font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", " ingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: auto !important;" /></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px;">来源：说话小技巧</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px;"><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "ingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.5625" data-type="jpeg" data-w="640" width="auto" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/MW76aau6QqcLw2zRtF2Ymw5miag8143AdB4guDW8y7yibKwB6AjpqxEt3ttmV5WmEOepAtI8lBZcZGXlIeJxMIyQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: auto !important;" /><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "ingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "ingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">导语：最近可能是天气炎热的原因，大家的情绪都比较焦躁。很多读者朋友的来信中也提及自己最近经常和身边的朋友、同事乃至亲人摩擦不断，苦恼不堪。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "ingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "ingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">人与人交往就是这样，既然生活在一起，就没有锅碰不到盆的，有点矛盾在所难免，重要的是能吸取教训，总结经验。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "ingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "ingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">今天，就跟大家简单聊一聊，在人际交往中，怎样做才能将阻力减到最小，也就是我们常说的：不招人烦。</span></p><blockquote style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "ingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">１ 珍惜公共的时间，少刷一些存在感。</span></strong></span></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "ingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.7509090909090909" data-type="jpeg" data-w="550" width="auto" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/MW76aau6QqcLw2zRtF2Ymw5miag8143AdicVWfyicRNapjzSVkrlqVy0bKosRx0eSctYxVhicGccGdtn9FZ6R3MY5w/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: auto !important;" /><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">人际交往与个人独处最大的不同就是：当人与人聚到一起的时候，很多的资源变成了公共的，而非私有。这其中，最宝贵的资源就是时间。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">每个人都不是一根木头，来自各个群体的你我他走到一起，本身就自带着生活中的琐事繁杂与情绪万千，大家都有自己的一大堆事情等待处理，千万别动辄就占用别人的宝贵光阴，只为了满足你个人的表达快感。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这里建议大家：如果是与人相约谈事情，先把时间划分好，问清楚对方是否还有其他的事；如果轮到你发表看法，长话短说，语言精练，点到为止，别为了那点虚荣心和存在感动不动就侃侃而谈。<br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><blockquote style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">２ 有意见私下谈，当众时不揭短。</span></strong></span><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">人都是爱捡好话听，这点你不承认都不行。即便再亲密的关系，也是爱听夸怕听骂，所以别再打着良药苦口的正义大旗去肆意指摘别人，父母说你两句你都能轻易翻脸，给领导汇报时人家都叫你提建设性意见，所以你应该知道：防己之口甚于防川。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这里建议大家，如果对某人某事抱有不同看法，当众时求同存异，自己的想法放到私下约谈，一个是能够给予对方足够的颜面，同时也避免了错误出在你这里而带来额外的风险。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">还要注意的一点就是：当瘸子面不说短话，甭管对方显得多么不在意，你也别轻易拿对方的短处打趣，表面上风平浪静，受害的是你们的关系。<br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><blockquote style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">３ 交谈时情绪缓，给对方足够的反应时间。</span></strong></span><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.625" data-type="jpeg" data-w="640" width="auto" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/MW76aau6QqcLw2zRtF2Ymw5miag8143Adyw9kanaicpzsjpcgx2rn3fkA0KC5gQHg3VjH4N1icgXenBpMdPVymZtA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: auto !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 25.6px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">人际交往是一种信息传达，既然是传达，就自然包含着传与达两个部分。但在现实生活的许多交往案例中，常常都存在着传而不达的现象。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人，急于把事情说完，或急于让对方知道自己的意见与观点，在交谈时话语如连珠炮一般，生怕时间不够，有话讲不完。然而，这样做的坏处事你东拉西扯半天对方不知道你在说什么，你真正想要的是什么。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">每个传播者对面站着的接受者都是一个活生生的人而非机器，所以我们在传达信息的时候务必要保证清晰、详尽，在表达看法时舒缓好自己的情绪，慢慢说，不要急。实践无数次的证明，许多矛盾都源自于交往时不懂得运用语言，许多交谈的摩擦完全可以用平缓适当的语气避免。<br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><blockquote style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">４ 共事时少犯懒，不给对方造麻烦。</span></strong></span><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.8328125" data-type="jpeg" data-w="640" width="auto" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/MW76aau6QqcLw2zRtF2Ymw5miag8143Ad8HuVOPFkmv7dBH3DviagnGVEYWNCoULuwErWHQbagibGjJPc0xkkGbcg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: auto !important;" /><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">人人都爱耍小聪明，心里都敲打着几下小算盘。但当我们在与朋友或同事共同完成一项任务时，一定要拿出足够的诚意与责任感。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">在一个团队当中，最不缺的就是搭顺风车的懒汉，你以为你的事不关己，优哉游哉多么省心清闲，但大家都看在眼里记在心上，只是一时没想把你戳穿。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">在这里还需要注意一点，如果你意识到自己对这个团队起不到什么太明显的正面作用，那就把嘴巴闭上，靠边站。建议谁都会提，不缺你一个，光动嘴四出乱支但又不会做什么事，只会给大伙平添麻烦。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">再好的个人意见也抵不过踏实肯干，别再自作聪明地犯懒，出来混迟早要还。<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><blockquote style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">５ 承诺时慢一点，拒绝时应果断。</span></strong></span><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">大家相处在一起，难免有需要彼此帮忙的时候。当别人有事相求找到你，千万别为了面子问题而想都不想一口答应，说出去的话泼出去的水，所有的承诺背后都站着一个讨债人，等着你用行动把说过的话一一兑现。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当意识到对方的诉求已经超出了你的能力范围，或是给你造成了很大的不方便，应该果断拒绝，不要给对方留下任何想象的空间。这对你来说是种解脱，对对方来说也是种负责。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当你认为这件事自己可能办好又可能做不到时，一定要把情况说明，告诉对方做两手准备，免得人家在你这一棵树上吊死，不光你背上了黑锅，也耽误了对方的事情。<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></span></p><blockquote style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">６ 遇到摩擦找重点，不把矛头扯太远。</span></strong></span><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.6363636363636364" data-type="jpeg" data-w="319" width="auto" src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/MW76aau6QqcLw2zRtF2Ymw5miag8143AdV0wiciayYjkUNuxdhhohPtRRf3jLiaxdyxYQO6drJUzSu5IUwIQU5EeGg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: auto !important;" /><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;" /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们经常会与他人遇到意见相悖，发生争吵的时候，其实争吵也是种特殊的交流，既然是交流，就包含着事实与观点。争吵时如果不想把矛盾激化，事情闹大，最好将事实与观点分开看分开谈，切忌两人意味宣泄情绪，规避重点，话都擦不到边。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">另外需要注意的是：当一个人对你展现出负面情绪，不要一下子就把原因归结到自己这里。有可能是对方身体不舒服，有可能他最近遇到了哪些问题，站在这个出发点上，你接下来的行动就应该是问清楚他脸色不好的原因，然后看看自己可以帮他做哪些力所能及的事情。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">千万别忽视这个逻辑，因为我们生活中的本能反应往往是：对方脸色不好，你一下子就觉得是在针对自己，然后脑补出许多狗血剧情，进而你也闷闷不乐，亦或是硝烟四起。交往中的好心态就是：该怎么回事就怎么回事，不拿情绪套事情。</span></p><blockquote style="color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">７ 过多攀比耗时间，炫耀只会露弱点。</span></strong></span><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">六岁的你喜欢谈论其他小朋友在玩什么玩具，十六岁的你时刻注意身旁同学考试分数的运行轨迹，二十六岁的你聚会时不忘追问死党混的多牛逼，三十六岁的你抱怨儿女怎么就没别人家孩子有出息，四十六岁的你渴望天下人知道你老公的事业如意，五十六岁的你为了所谓的脸面跟邻里吵嘴斗气，六十六岁的你歪着嘴巴入土，留给子孙后人一声扼腕叹息……你这一生没忙别的，所有的精力都投入到了：跟一切生活里的假想敌们，比来比去。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 16px;line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br /></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang 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100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-indent: 0em;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 12px;font-family: Arial, Verdana, sans-serif;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">交流Q群：1106 11074</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-indent: 0em;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 12px;font-family: Arial, Verdana, sans-serif;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">阿里店铺网址：https://renchengyiliao.1688.com</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0.544px;text-indent: 0em;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);color: rgb(62, 62, 62);font-size: 12px;font-family: Arial, Verdana, sans-serif;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">电子邮箱：sales@parts-ultrasound.com</span></p>
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